Friday, April 14, 2017

opposing views

Shining some light on a darker issue…
I have been trying to understand some political issues from the conservative side. I recently watched a documentary on Netflix called "Targeted." It spells out many ideas held by pro-gun groups (gun enthusiasts?).
It was very educational. The most important idea I came across is that pro-gun people believe that our right to bear arms is a way to keep the government in check. If citizens have guns, the government cannot overtake us. I heard – if the government makes all the rules, they get all the guns. If the government disarms us, it is a way to gain control over the people. I heard – there is no "gun control" – there is only "people control."
So I am understanding that pro-gun groups consider gun restrictions as limiting their power to keep the government in check. I can follow the logic, though I don't understand why some limits are offensive. What's wrong with background checks? What's wrong with keeping guns out of the hands of people with mental illness or past criminal behavior?
Another point that seems valid is when I heard – gun restrictions don't keep guns out of the hands of bad guys. If criminals want guns, government restrictions are not going to stop them. I'm guessing most of the guns used by drug dealers and such are obtained illegally.
I learned that the appeal of the right to carry concealed weapons is that it puts uncertainty into the minds of criminals. If the neighbor on the street can pull a gun to stop a crime, it may be less likely the crime will be committed.
So, now I feel I understand pro-gun people a little better. I still think gun restrictions are a good thing – guns are not being eliminated. We are still a long way from reducing gun violence in our country. But maybe the two sides, pro-gun and anti-gun, can cooperate to find ways to stop criminals. Being understanding and respectful of people with opposing views is the only way to promote compromise and cooperation.

Wednesday, March 22, 2017

Sing 3

These songs I sing around the house make me sad lately, but let's hope for the future.

America, the Beautiful
free to be you and me
God bless America
grand old flag
Little Boxes
My country, 'tis of thee
star spangled banner
This land is your land
yankee doodle

Tuesday, March 7, 2017

Sing 2


Sing around the house:

blowin' in the wind
Dreams go by
59th Street Bridge Song
forever young 
Give yourself to love 
How rich the life
How sweet it is
I can't keep it in
moon shadow
Something in the way she moves
The Sound of Silence
sweet baby James
you've got a friend


Monday, March 6, 2017

Sing


Sing around the house:

Can't help falling in love
close to you
Dream a little dream of me
Eight days a week
God bless the moon
Hot diggety, dog ziggety
I will
In my life
Little bitty pretty one
Lollipop
la vie en rose
moon river
that's amore
time in a bottle
The very thought of you
Waltz for a Night


Wednesday, March 1, 2017

diversity & equality

I was thinking about two words – diversity & equality. They sound like opposites. But they are two things that I hope our country will continue to strive for. The world is a better place when every difference is celebrated and when no matter how different we may be, we are all treated equally.

Yay for diversity! Yay for equality!

Let us rise up together and eclipse all hatred!

Thursday, February 23, 2017

patient



  1. 1 :  bearing pains or trials calmly or without complaint
  2. 2 :  manifesting forbearance under provocation or strain
  3. 3 :  not hasty or impetuous
  4. 4 :  steadfast despite opposition, difficulty, or adversity

Are you patient? I think I must have been born with a patient gene. 

As a teacher, I had lots of patience for my students. They had struggles, and I think my calm, easy-going manner was helpful.

I have daily frustrations with MS. I have honed my patience over these 20+ years. My mood is always better when I can calmly face my challenges.
 
Now, I am nearing the end of a new test of my will to be calm. I moved to PA in September 2016 and immediately applied for a state program to fund my home health care. The application said "30 to 60" days. It has now been over 5 months!

Sigh. All I can do is wait. I'm tired of complaining but I can't seem to help myself.

Thanks for listening. 

Wishing you patience when you need it!

Friday, February 3, 2017

action

My friend and I were talking yesterday about the fear of what our new administration could do to change our country for the worst. I'd like to share the thing that keeps me hopeful.

Our president and the people he is promoting are to the extreme opposite of the values I hold dear. But I think that having such a drastic difference is instigating the rest of us to step up and work even harder for the things that are important to us.

I have been signing petitions and calling my senators regularly. I'm reading more so that I am aware of changes coming. And my friends are, too.

If you are interested, there is a weekly action list with ideas to stay involved. http://jenniferhofmann.com/…/weekly-action-checklist-democ…/
Here are two of my favorite suggestions:
1 – choose three issues to focus on, including one that may not affect you directly
2 – write a letter to your senators and representatives with the issues most important to you (in addition to calling, emailing or writing in regard to immediate issues)


So, I am hoping that there may be some conservative ideas that will help our country. I am hoping that extreme ideas will encourage debate. And most of all, I'm hoping that love and positive ACTIONS will create a better world.

Let's shine our light and act with kindness and respect!